I would like to start off with a resounding: No! Although I consider myself to be both there is a difference. Introversion has to do with how much time you like spending with people. For example, I have few friends and I like it that way for the most part. I enjoy time by myself and feel tired after meeting with lots of people. How can you find out if you are introvert? One test I found really interesting: http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/test-introverted-personality-traits-introversion-signs/. Now if you are anything like me you can't stand large crowds, noisy, crowded places and people that never stop talking! I think I will stick with my nice, quiet life thank you.
Now about the shyness, that is a whole other issue. Meeting new people is sometimes stressful. Not knowing what to say, being easily intimidated, making small talk can all be difficult. I used to be petrified of public speaking, but now that I have been forced to do it, I have a reasonable level of nervousness that I can handle. Calling strangers on the phone, not fun, but I have learned that skill as well. Walking into a room full of strangers or dating are still huge challenges. I consider it a good day when I can have a short conversation with a cute guy! Hmm maybe this would explain my lack of dates lol.
Anyway, I guess I was trying to say introversion is something innate whereas shyness is learned and can be overcome. I am sure that even if I weren't shy I would not be dying to socialize with everyone and anyone.
For those of us who feel like we were born in the wrong era, but have somehow learned to adjust.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Introduction
A little more about me...I go to a state college studying sociology and criminal justice. I have no idea what I want to do with my life but I think that no one really, truly does. I would consider myself a conservative Christian meaning that I believe in all the fundamentals of Christianity such as the death, resurrection and salvation of Jesus. I don't consider myself a fundamentalist in lifestyle, necessarily. I am also politically conservative, both fiscally and socially. I hope to cover subjects like that on this blog. Some people will undoubtedly not appreciate my opinions but such is life and plus I love a good debate, as long as it doesn't get out of hand :). I will probably think of some more things to say as I go along but if anyone every has a question I will see if I can answer it.
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