I would like to start off with a resounding: No! Although I consider myself to be both there is a difference. Introversion has to do with how much time you like spending with people. For example, I have few friends and I like it that way for the most part. I enjoy time by myself and feel tired after meeting with lots of people. How can you find out if you are introvert? One test I found really interesting: http://theadventurouswriter.com/blog/test-introverted-personality-traits-introversion-signs/. Now if you are anything like me you can't stand large crowds, noisy, crowded places and people that never stop talking! I think I will stick with my nice, quiet life thank you.
Now about the shyness, that is a whole other issue. Meeting new people is sometimes stressful. Not knowing what to say, being easily intimidated, making small talk can all be difficult. I used to be petrified of public speaking, but now that I have been forced to do it, I have a reasonable level of nervousness that I can handle. Calling strangers on the phone, not fun, but I have learned that skill as well. Walking into a room full of strangers or dating are still huge challenges. I consider it a good day when I can have a short conversation with a cute guy! Hmm maybe this would explain my lack of dates lol.
Anyway, I guess I was trying to say introversion is something innate whereas shyness is learned and can be overcome. I am sure that even if I weren't shy I would not be dying to socialize with everyone and anyone.
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